How To Redecorate After A Divorce
Whatever the circumstances, starting a new life after divorce is in your best interest. But, how do you do that? Beyond leaning on your community, evaluating the changes you'd like to make, and making sure your kids are adjusting to the changes, you can't forget to take time for yourself. When things are changing so rapidly, it can be hard to feel a sense of control, but by making a few positive changes you can start to feel better at your own pace.
Whether you're in a new home, new apartment, or reinventing the marital home you shared with your former spouse, this is the perfect time for a new look and a fresh start. Not only is it a great first step to moving forward, but it is a way for you to discover new things about yourself. Like, what colors you like, artwork you want to look at every day, and what kind of home you want to have. Maybe you want a sanctuary to hide away in or a place for you and your best friends to hang out and relax in.
Turning your new home into a safe haven will only improve your mental and emotional health. We understand it can be an emotional experience to redecorate, so we recommend asking family members and friends to help you as you embark on this new chapter of your life.
Find Your Personal Style
When you share so much of your life with someone, it can be easy to view things as what "we" like as opposed to what you like. Think of this as your second chance at a first apartment, you can decorate it any way you like. Maybe you prefer neutrals or maybe it's time to explore with bold colors. Hit the thrift store for unique artwork. Make a Pinterest account and explore different home aesthetics to see what calls to you. And of course, you can always hire an interior designer to help you figure out how to decorate your entire space.
Remove Overly Sentimental Items
This may be a lot easier said then done, but it is one of the most important things you can do to make your new home feel like a clean slate. I’m not saying to throw old memories away, but it may be useful to put those sentimental pieces in storage while you figure out your state of mind. This is an opportunity to reflect on what you need to truly move forward with the next part of your life.
Refresh Your Home Decor
This is one of the easiest ways to refresh how your home looks. Replace the lightbulbs and lampshades (or just get new lamps entirely), give each room a coat of fresh paint, a new piece of art, and invest in new furniture pieces if it feels right!
New Bedding
I know what you’re thinking… new bedding? How will that help? But trust me, this is such a simple, but great way to begin the healing process. Your bed and bed set was once something you shared with your partner, by changing your sheets and investing in a new comforter and throw pillows will make your bed a clean slate and safe place for you to rest in.
Make New Memories
Once your home looks the way you like, and even before then, start planning activities with the ones you care about. Maybe you host a book club or weekly movie night. One of the best parts of your new life is making it what you want to be. Fill your space with new memories that will bring you joy whenever you look back on them.
I know this is a difficult and ever-changing time in your life, but I hope you find your way to a life and home that makes you feel like the best version of yourself. For home staging and interior design assistance visit Rooted Interiors.